Baptism is Everything

Share on email
Share on whatsapp
Share on twitter
Share on pinterest
Share on print
Share on reddit

When I gave birth to each of my girls, I remember falling instantly in love with them. I remember the first time I laid eyes on my oldest, after a long and challenging labor. She was so beautiful, so perfect, that it made every minute of suffering worth it. I expected that that would be the case, and although I was surprised by the intensity of my feelings, I wasn’t surprised that I felt as I did.

What did surprise me was the intensity of joy surrounding her baptism. I wasn’t prepared for the overwhelming joy and humility I would feel, in light of the realization that God had allowed me to be a part of bringing a new soul to life in Him.

The parish we attended as newlyweds was well-known for its baptisms. The Easter Vigil was long because of the number of baptisms that occurred each year. The baptismal font is often referred to as “the womb of the Church” and it is from the labor pains of the Triduum that the birth of these new children of God come. This reality strikes me DSC09651anew each Triduum. Even when no baptisms are performed at the Vigil, a whole portion of the liturgy is set aside to recall and renew our own Baptismal promises. That practice carries over to Easter Sunday Masses, where the faithful also renew those same promises.

Why is Baptism such an integral part of the Easter liturgies? Because Baptism is everything.

All that occurs in the Paschal Triduum, all that we celebrate at Easter, only makes sense in light of the gift of our Baptism. For, if we can’t take part in the mystery, what is the point? Baptism is our own experience of the Paschal mystery. We descend (literally or figuratively) into the waters of Baptism, and there we die. We emerge alive anew – alive in Christ. The waters of Baptism are our own experience of the Triduum. “If we have died with Christ, then we shall live with Him.”

The Triduum, and the Easter season, are special in that they highlight the drama of that moment – the moment when the priest pours the water and utters the words, “I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.” If you have ever been present at the Easter Vigil, you have experienced the solemnity of that moment. The baptisms that many of us attend – on a Sunday afternoon, during a morning Mass, may seem less dramatic. They may feel joy-filled, certainly, but they tend to have a lighter, cheerier feeling to them. It is easy to forget that they are that child’s partaking in the death and resurrection of Christ.

But the drama, the seriousness, of what happens at each baptism is real. Prior to baptism, heaven is not a given for the child. Certainly, we hope in Christ’s mercy, but there isn’t the surety that there is once a child has been baptized. In our modern world, where the child mortality rate is (thankfully) much lower than it once was, we take for granted the fragile state of a new child. It is not uncommon to postpone a baptism for months, rather than days or weeks. It is a given that the child will be healthy and strong, and there is no sense of urgency.

But with Baptism – there needs to be a sense of urgency. We cannot lose sight of the significance of this Sacrament. At the moment of Baptism, we are given an indelible mark on our souls and everything changes. In that instant, we can call God “Father,” the Church our Mother, and we become a part of the body of Christ.

As we continue in this Paschal season, my God bless you with a renewed love and appreciation for your own Baptism.

Michele Chronister

Michele Chronister

Michele Chronister is a theologian (married to a theologian), mother to two little girls, and freelance writer on the side. She is received her BA and MA in theology from the University of Notre Dame (’09 and ’11) but her favorite way to use her degrees is answering her preschooler’s questions about faith at bedtime. She is the author of Handbook for Adaptive Catechesis and the co-author of Faith Beginnings – Family Nurturing from Birth Through Preschool (both published through Ligouri publications). She has also contributed articles to Catholic Digest and Catechetical Leader, and is a member of the National Catholic Partnership on Disability’s Council on Intellectual and Development Disabilities. When he oldest was a baby, she realized that their family life had taken on a sort of monastic rhythm – eat, pray, play, sleep. Prompted by this, she started the blog My Domestic Monastery (, where she shares inspiration for families wanting to grow in holiness.

Leave a Replay

2 thoughts on “Baptism is Everything”

  1. Avatar

    .” Prior to baptism, heaven is not a given for the child.”

    Heaven is never a given. The oblique reference to Limbo (from a theologian mo less)
    stacks right up there with the Muslim orthodox believe that infidels will not enter heaven either. Whether you realize it or not this archaic thinking will not survive another generation.

  2. Pingback: SATURDAY EDITION - Big Pulpit

Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published.

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Sign up for our Newsletter

Click edit button to change this text. Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit