Tag: family

Reasons to be Open to Motherhood

Reasons to be Open to Motherhood

[ 2 ] May 12, 2013 AD |

In honour of Mother’s Day… A fellow writer recently asked somebody to write something positive about motherhood. She said “Some of us not-yet-moms are scared of motherhood because all we hear is that you’re miserable and debilitated for nine months, then have a day of the most excruciating pain ever, then you don’t sleep for [...]

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W.W.M.D?

W.W.M.D?

[ 0 ] May 12, 2013 AD |

Have you ever seen the letters “WWJD?” The phrase “What Would Jesus Do” appears on bumper stickers, wristbands, coffee mugs and various other tchotchkes from time to time. As a young mother, however, I often find myself asking, “What Would Mary Do?” To me, Mary, the Mother of God, is an amazing model of perfect motherhood. She was [...]

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Are Those All Your Kids?

Are Those All Your Kids?

[ 8 ] May 8, 2013 AD |

You sure have your hands full! Do you know what causes that? When my family of seven rounds a corner (mostly when I am not with them), folk find a way to scoot in our direction just close enough to launch one of these quips. Just recently, my wife made a comment about this on [...]

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Great Expectations

Great Expectations

[ 4 ] May 3, 2013 AD |

The Huffington Post must have known the publication of “My Wife Is Expecting Twins and I Am Not Happy About It” would cause waves. Tsunami-level waves, where people were aghast to read paragraphs like this one: Two blessings, two bundles of joy. How could you not be happy, you ask? Of course I’m sympathetic to [...]

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A Journey Begins: Baptism

A Journey Begins: Baptism

[ 3 ] April 14, 2013 AD |

The Easter season always gives me a sense of renewal and rejuvenation. Not only is the Catholic celebration of Jesus’ resurrection a central component of our faith, but the Easter season also brings with it a feeling of new life and a spiritual “fresh start”. This Easter, our son’s first, brought to mind his Baptism. [...]

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Filling the Bucket of Self Esteem

Filling the Bucket of Self Esteem

March 27, 2013 AD |

Self esteem. A modern essential. Self esteem was a term invented by Sigmund Freud. The concept has taken wings since then, enhancing other modern philosophies. In the modern world, ever increasing affirmation of self esteem is key through political correctness (not offending anyone), relativism (everyone is right in whatever they think) as well as in [...]

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Uniquely Catholic Fears and the Dreaded Religious Calling

Uniquely Catholic Fears and the Dreaded Religious Calling

[ 9 ] March 26, 2013 AD |

The other day I walked into our bathroom to encounter a small stack of towels, folded on the floor—the same stack my wife had earlier asked our eighth grade son to put away. She hadn’t told him to put the towels on the shelf rather than the floor. Hence the stack on the floor. This [...]

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Marriage and the Priesthood: a Match Made in Heaven?

Marriage and the Priesthood: a Match Made in Heaven?

[ 60 ] March 1, 2013 AD |

Or, at least, not a match made in Hell…

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The Next Best Thing to Monastic Life

The Next Best Thing to Monastic Life

[ 7 ] December 10, 2012 AD |

So you wanted to be a monk, or a nun, but God called you to married life. Not to worry! The next best thing to being a monk or nun, is living next to a monastery or convent. The benefits of living in close proximity to religious are numerous. Imagine, waking up in the morning to the [...]

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My Broken Rule

My Broken Rule

[ 5 ] October 4, 2012 AD |

I cried so hard on the drive home. I probably should have pulled over. Or figured out a way to hold back the tears. But I didn’t fight it, and I always fight it. This time, I gave myself permission to dwell in my tears a little. A little carried well into the afternoon, and [...]

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Family Impact on Society by Deacon Antonio

Family Impact on Society by Deacon Antonio

[ 2 ] September 8, 2012 AD |

Scott Hahn in his book “First Comes Love” cites the monumental work of Harvard University Professor, Carle C. Zimmerman’s entitled “Family and Civilization” which citation, I paraphrase in this article.  Zimmerman studied families in different societies throughout history.  He classified families in these societies into three categories:  the trustee family, the domestic family, and the atomistic [...]

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404 Error

404 Error

[ 3 ] May 11, 2012 AD |

My brain is not in the least interested in our symposium topic this week.  The address for “mercy” + “forgiveness” + “killing” NOT “animals” was not found. Like any good writer, I hunted around for input, hoping to get some ideas about either mercy or killing.  According to my mom friends, every mother’s life “is [...]

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Why We Need Work

Why We Need Work

[ 1 ] May 3, 2012 AD |

Last week  The Daily Caller broke the news feature about the Labor Department attempting  to ban farm chores. When I alerted my dad who is a life-long farmer about the new rule, he was speechless. As he scanned the news article his first comment was “This is a joke, right” To someone who has lived his life defined [...]

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Speed of Life

Speed of Life

[ 2 ] April 13, 2012 AD |

That’s a catchy, clever little phrase. “The speed of life.” David Bowie used it for a song. I think there was a movie. I don’t have a particularly strong grasp of reality at the moment, though.  Writing coherently has slipped way, way down on my list of priorities–right after things like ‘wax the cat’ and [...]

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Turn Around!

Turn Around!

[ 2 ] April 6, 2012 AD |

Today is Good Friday. At noon, my family will drive to Mt. Adams, to a hill overlooking the Ohio River. We will descend many steps, cross a bridge, and then go down many more, before reaching a landing, turning around, and going back up each step, one rosary bead at a time. I will wear [...]

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The Blessings of Bunny Slippers

The Blessings of Bunny Slippers

[ 7 ] December 15, 2011 AD |

I’m wearing bunny slippers as I type this post. My late Aunt Tracey gave them to me two Christmases ago (her last Christmas). I wear them, but I don’t even like slippers. I’m not a fan of slip-on shoes. They always slip off. I wear them because Aunt Tracey gave them to me. Aunt Tracey [...]

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Believing in Santa

Believing in Santa

[ 21 ] December 8, 2011 AD |

About this time of year, moms in all corners of the blogosphere pull out their boxing gloves and prepare to battle to the death to defend or decry Santa Claus. Here in the Catholic corner of the blogosphere, the “to Santa or not to Santa” battle takes on a different twist: Santa vs. St. Nicholas. [...]

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Moral Economics 101

Moral Economics 101

[ 13 ] October 31, 2011 AD |

According to one admittedly unscientific survey, 37% of Occupy Wall Street protesters believe that capitalism is inherently immoral — presumably because they think it encourages Public Enemy No. 1, greed. Evidence shows that a more free economy (reasonably regulated) can actually alleviate poverty… but it can only do that in a moral society. Fixing the [...]

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Hard-Core Prolife

Hard-Core Prolife

[ 6 ] October 25, 2011 AD |

Lucky me just got back from a weekend trip that took me to the sunny and swampy city of New Orleans. It was a quick trip away from my normal schedule and a chance to visit friends. Something I will never pass up. The best part of the trip was the fact that I was [...]

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God Needs You!

God Needs You!

[ 4 ] September 7, 2011 AD |

Last month, my boyfriend’s grandfather died. The beauty of our Catholic faith never felt more exposed to me than with the passing of another believing soul from earth into eternity. I could not turn a corner in the grandfather’s house without seeing a crucifix. The family physically came together in fellowship- to eat meals, participate [...]

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Indecision, Choreographed

Indecision, Choreographed

[ 9 ] August 22, 2011 AD |

  My middle child, Charlotte, is two-and-a-half. In fact, she may be the most two-and-a-half two-and-a-half year old I think I’ve ever encountered. Among her many current charms is a complete inability to make a decision. She’ll waffle between two choices, physically moving toward one and then the other, doing a sort of side-step Charleston, [...]

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