Category: Life

The Value of Life is Found in the Cross of Christ

The Value of Life is Found in the Cross of Christ

[ 2 ] May 22, 2013 AD |

In the struggle for life, talking about God is indispensable. Only in this way does the value of the weak, the disabled, the nonproductive, the incurably ill become apparent; only in this way can we relearn and rediscover, too, the value of suffering: the greatest lesson on human dignity always remains the cross of Christ, [...]

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The Devil Is in Comparison

The Devil Is in Comparison

[ 3 ] May 20, 2013 AD |

I can hardly tell you how often I’ve had the following thoughts lately: “She’s married with three kids and she is only a year older than I am, what am I doing with my life?“ “She’s traveled to six different countries in the last three years, what on Earth have I been doing?“ “He’s got a great [...]

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We’re All God’s Children

We’re All God’s Children

[ 4 ] May 20, 2013 AD |

On April 15, two bombs went off at the Boston Marathon killing three people and injuring 264. This latest in terrorist attacks struck fear into the entire nation, especially the Boston area, for four days until one of the suspected bombers was killed in a shoot-out and the other was arrested. The arrested suspect, Dzokhar [...]

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The Ethics of Your Wedding Dress

The Ethics of Your Wedding Dress

[ 11 ] May 19, 2013 AD |

You’re probably expecting me to say something about strapless dresses and not showing too much skin, but I’m not. Okay, I can’t resist so here’s my opinion on the subject: Don’t be trashy, The Dress is about your wedding day, not your wedding night. With wedding season upon us, what I really want to talk [...]

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I Know It’s Difficult, I Live It Myself

I Know It’s Difficult, I Live It Myself

[ 14 ] May 16, 2013 AD |

From a talk with my eldest. With her permission. Because teenagers need to know that they’re not alone.  Another bonus of NFP…it makes it easier to promote chastity and abstinence to your children. I noticed the other day that you were listening with rapt attention to the girls at the pool as they talked about [...]

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For Men’s Eyes Only

For Men’s Eyes Only

[ 1 ] May 15, 2013 AD |

What is Jared doing reading a woman’s magazine? Well, why is a woman’s magazine interviewing the Brett McKay, the founder of “The Art of Manliness”? So, enough of the questioning my masculinity for “liking” Verily on Facebook and let’s get onto our discussion of manliness. By the way, you can purchase a subscription to Verily [...]

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Worthy: See Yourself as God Does

Worthy: See Yourself as God Does

[ 2 ] May 14, 2013 AD |

The world is constantly telling women that we aren’t good enough.  We go unseen, unsought, unpursued, and this all leads us to believe that we are unworthy. Unworthy of what, you ask? Unworthy of happiness, joy, love, peace, and any good thing that life could offer us. These lies, straight from the mouth of Satan, [...]

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Reasons to be Open to Motherhood

Reasons to be Open to Motherhood

[ 2 ] May 12, 2013 AD |

In honour of Mother’s Day… A fellow writer recently asked somebody to write something positive about motherhood. She said “Some of us not-yet-moms are scared of motherhood because all we hear is that you’re miserable and debilitated for nine months, then have a day of the most excruciating pain ever, then you don’t sleep for [...]

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W.W.M.D?

W.W.M.D?

[ 0 ] May 12, 2013 AD |

Have you ever seen the letters “WWJD?” The phrase “What Would Jesus Do” appears on bumper stickers, wristbands, coffee mugs and various other tchotchkes from time to time. As a young mother, however, I often find myself asking, “What Would Mary Do?” To me, Mary, the Mother of God, is an amazing model of perfect motherhood. She was [...]

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The New Evangelization: One Small Step

The New Evangelization: One Small Step

[ 4 ] May 10, 2013 AD |

How do you measure greatness? We all want it. We all have a certain desire within us to do something different. We do not want to just fall into the routine of life with a mediocre job and settle for less than we are capable of. Just because we all have this desire doesn’t necessarily [...]

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Infertility and Spiritual Surrender

Infertility and Spiritual Surrender

[ 15 ] May 9, 2013 AD |

It happened again. Oh, I thought this time would be different. But, then I saw it, that pretty little pink box, peeking out from in between the hairspray and nail-polish remover, greeting me so warmly from the bathroom drawer where it waits. I was only trying to get some lotion, I wasn’t looking for it, [...]

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Sanctify Your Day

Sanctify Your Day

[ 9 ] May 8, 2013 AD |

As Catholics, we should have the desire to be saints. But how do we do it? One may think that it’s extremely difficult to become a saint, but let us just follow St. Therese’s method, sanctifying each day in the little things. Here is a list of things to keep in mind to make becoming [...]

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Wash Their Hands, All are Welcome

Wash Their Hands, All are Welcome

[ 3 ] May 8, 2013 AD |

Earlier this week, I read Joseph Amodeo’s article at Huffington Post. I will be the first to admit that I was upset and angry that a group of people would abuse a cardinal’s letter of welcome and reconciliation. I thought to myself, “Why would some people go to such great lengths just to make a [...]

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A Case Against Abstinence

A Case Against Abstinence

[ 18 ] May 6, 2013 AD |

I don’t really like abstinence. Wait. What? I certainly think restraint is valuable–I resist the kind of trips where you go to Target for two things and come out with ten. I try not to eat meat on Fridays. I teach NFP. In some cases, however, particularly the case of sexuality, abstinence seems to miss [...]

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Is NFP Crazy?

Is NFP Crazy?

[ 17 ] May 5, 2013 AD |

“You’re crazy.” Well, thanks for your kindness and tolerance in regards to my way of life. We hear a lot about tolerance and accepting others nowadays, but this is usually the response I get from people when I tell them that my husband and I don’t use contraception. Let me tell you, I love when [...]

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Living for the Weekend

Living for the Weekend

[ 5 ] May 5, 2013 AD |

We all know people – in fact you may be one of those people – who live for the weekend. Every work place has people who function like countdown clocks perennially sharing the news of how much time is left before Friday rolls around. Mondays are the most painful day of the week because it [...]

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A Chastity Interview With a Sex Therapist

A Chastity Interview With a Sex Therapist

[ 6 ] May 4, 2013 AD |

 A couple summers ago, I yelled “gonads!” across a classroom of laughing grad students. We wiped tears and covered red faces while during the first session of our human sexuality class, we shouted all the sex words we knew. Our professor – sex therapist Dae Sheridan – made a list of them on the board. [...]

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Great Expectations

Great Expectations

[ 4 ] May 3, 2013 AD |

The Huffington Post must have known the publication of “My Wife Is Expecting Twins and I Am Not Happy About It” would cause waves. Tsunami-level waves, where people were aghast to read paragraphs like this one: Two blessings, two bundles of joy. How could you not be happy, you ask? Of course I’m sympathetic to [...]

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When Did I See You Lord?

When Did I See You Lord?

[ 1 ] May 2, 2013 AD |

  We all do it- use Facebook as a way to communicate our political and religious viewpoint. After all, isn’t that the whole purpose of Facebook…  Well, a few days ago a seminarian friend of mine posted this quote from St. Josemaria Escriva on his Facebook: “If you have time on your hands, think again a little. It’s [...]

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The Top Five Ways to -NOT- Grow in Emotional Purity

The Top Five Ways to -NOT- Grow in Emotional Purity

[ 10 ] May 2, 2013 AD |

After listening to a great talk issued by Lighthouse Catholic Media’s new young adult line, Truth be Told, I found myself greatly in need of an emotional chastity makeover.  The talk, entitled “Why Do Women Do That?” and given by Lisa Cotter, examined the way a woman’s mind works, how men should best respond, and [...]

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Heartwarming Story from Texas Roadhouse

Heartwarming Story from Texas Roadhouse

[ 3 ] April 30, 2013 AD |

Last week my friend Audrey and her husband Phil took their two children to the Texas Roadhouse at Arrowhead in Peoria,  Arizona – a suburb of Phoenix. One of their kids, Henry, has autism and he had a rough time adjusting to the new environment with its music, noise, bustling people, animal heads on the walls, and [...]

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The New Evangelization and the Art of Living

The New Evangelization and the Art of Living

[ 2 ] April 30, 2013 AD |

To protect his identity, we’ll call him Frank. Though we’ve had many over the years, I distinctly remember one particular conversation with Frank. He was as happy, peaceful, and self-confident as I’d ever seen him. The reason: he had discovered Buddhism. We talked for hours as he recounted the peace he found in practicing meditation [...]

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Girls Gone Witless

Girls Gone Witless

[ 21 ] April 26, 2013 AD |

I’m processing something and think that maybe writing this out is the best way to find some explanation for it.  I’m certain there are others out there wrestling with the same facts so let’s work through this one together. I am sitting here tonight preoccupied with images of angry, topless women in Brussels throwing water [...]

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Why People With a Colorful Past Evangelize

Why People With a Colorful Past Evangelize

[ 4 ] April 26, 2013 AD |

I’m not wildly enthusiastic about showing my children pictures of me between 16 years old and 26, a full decade when I was the walking epitome of what not to be when you are young, single, and clueless about your Catholic faith. I didn’t exactly punk-out Duran Duran style in the eighties but I did [...]

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