One of my fondest memories of my grandmother is watching Little House on the Prairie with her when I was a child. Knowing she loved Little House on the Prairie, one Christmas I decided to purchase the first season of The Waltons for her. I am not entirely sure if she ever watched any of those Walton episodes, but I have. These shows were examples of good, clean, and wholesome television.
Contrast those shows with television today. As the seasons of many television shows have now had their finales, some fans are left with the cliffhanger endings, anticipating their fall premiers. Law and Order: Special Victims Unit watchers want to know what happens to Olivia. Bones viewers want to know what the heartbreak of Bones means for her relationship with Booth. And the list goes on. What are these shows and the many others all about? Sex, drugs, murder, etc.
The family friendly shows of yesteryear that taught a lesson have been replaced with over-sexualized shows exploiting immorality. Hollywood and television shows promote a specific agenda which finds itself at odds with Catholic moral teaching. Have you noticed that most shows include an active homosexual or bi-sexual couple? Or highlight the fornicating co-workers? Or convey that adulterous relationships are alright? Sometimes the shows undermine the Church by making jokes at the expense of the pope or priests, or challenge certain hot topic issues like in vitro fertilization or abortion. While these situations are realities in everyday life, nevertheless, by highlighting them, the viewing public becomes de-sensitized to these moral issues. Take for example one television show I recently saw in which a young boy was being cared for by a single lady. When another female co-worker visited her at her house, the boy inquisitively asked, “Is she your girlfriend?” This is how commonplace or ingrained these ideas have become. We no longer give such situations a second thought, but presume promiscuity.
Over the past several months I have questioned whether or not I should be watching television shows that glorify sin, death, and sexual perversity. It is a conversation I have had with my spiritual director, and it has been a recurring question in recent weeks in my own prayer. Besides the question of immorality in the programming, perhaps other questions are just as pertinent: How much time do I spend watching television? How has my spiritual life been lately? What else could I be doing with my time? Television becomes an easy tool of procrastination, especially if one has a Hulu account—television on demand. Or quite often many networks air weekend marathons of certain shows. Before one realizes it, they have spent three or four hours (or more) watching a series while other tasks fall to the backburner. The reading, studying, or praying one should have done, is put off until later, maybe even tomorrow.
To a certain degree, there is an addictive element to watching episode after episode—you want to know what happens to this or that character. That is why the use of cliffhangers is so effective. We want to know how the story ends because we have invested so much time in following the story. On a similar note, these questions could be raised about sports. As a Packer fan, I face a similar dilemma: Can I justify spending three hours watching this game when I have school work to do?
The purpose of this reflection is by no means to tell readers they should not watch television because their soul may be at stake. No, that is not the intent, rather, the purpose is to raise awareness about the moral depravity and encourage each individual to examine his or her own conscience. Since we have become so de-sensitized to immorality on television, perhaps some people have never thought about these moral questions, specifically how do I reconcile my Catholic beliefs with what I am watching? There is an old prophesy (most likely urban legend) that states: “Every American would have a black box in their home through which the devil would enter.” This prophesy has been attributed to Sts. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Frances Xavier Cabrini, and Padre Pio. They all probably did not say this, and maybe nobody actually said this, but the concept is, at the very least, intriguing. Many homes have a big, flat, hi-definition television which they gather around nightly, sometimes even taking their evening meal together in front of the television.
In Matthew 12:34, Jesus says: “From the depths of the heart, the mouth speaks.” Our mouth speaks from what we take in. If we consistently take in violence, death, and immorality through our television watching, our own language over time may begin to reflect that. Then again, Mother Angelica has given us EWTN, so we can fill ourselves with good things. I know that I will continue to grapple with the morality behind watching television, but I also know that my time can be better used to build up the kingdom of God through study, reading, and writing. But when the times comes and I need to vege or recreate, perhaps an episode of The Waltons will be in store, after all there are eight more seasons left to watch—one episode at a time.